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'I Gave a Man!' wartime war bonds poster from the Office of War Information

"I Gave a Man! Will You Give at Least 10 Percent of Your Pay in War Bonds?" A wartime poster issued by the Office of War Information.

National Archives, NAID 514558. Public domain.

More than a hundred thousand American women were widowed by the Second World War, many of them in their twenties, some with children they would now raise alone. Word came by telegram, or by the slower arrival of a chaplain's letter, and then the war went on without the man it had taken. They kept the letters and the photographs and the last things he sent home, and they carried a grief the country thanked them for and rarely asked about. Some never remarried. Some spent the rest of their lives making sure the men were not forgotten.

Katherine Mary Rooff Sullivan McFarland

1922 to 2016

American war widow; widow of Albert Sullivan of the five Sullivan brothers.

Katherine married Albert Sullivan in 1940 and had one son. Albert and his four brothers were killed when the USS Juneau was torpedoed on 13 November 1942 during the naval Battle of Guadalcanal, making Katherine the only widow among the five Sullivan brothers.

Marie Jordan Speer

1921 to 2019

American war widow; co-founder of Gold Star Wives of America.

Her husband, Army Private Edward H. Jordan, was killed near Aachen, Germany, on 25 November 1944. On 5 April 1945, Speer convened four widows in her Manhattan apartment, founding what became Gold Star Wives of America, and went on to lobby Congress for survivor benefits.

Lena Mae Riggi Basilone

1913 to 1999

Sergeant, Marine Corps Women's Reserve; widow of Marine Gunnery Sergeant John Basilone.

A sergeant in the Marine Corps Women's Reserve, Lena Riggi married Medal of Honor recipient John Basilone in July 1944. He was killed on the first day of the invasion of Iwo Jima on 19 February 1945, and the news reached her on her thirty-second birthday. She never remarried, and more than fifty years later she was buried still wearing her wedding ring.

Helen Burger Miller

died 1966

American war widow; widow of bandleader Major Glenn Miller.

Helen married Glenn Miller in 1928. Serving as an Army Air Forces major and leading a military band in Europe, he vanished over the English Channel on 15 December 1944 and was never found. She accepted his Bronze Star in 1945 and spent the years that followed keeping his orchestra and his music alive.

Researched and written by · Fortitude Research

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